Take your time and choose someone who always chooses you and you’ll experience the kind of relationship that most people claim don’t exist.

Don’t rush yourself into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself, feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other.

Don’t think that he/she is yours until the day he/she is really yours because it will take them only one second to forget you. But you’ll curse yourself for the rest of your life.

People get into a relationship and stop investing. Always treat your woman as if you are still trying to convince her to accept you even after years of relationship. Keep flirting. Keep putting in efforts. Keep trying to understand. Keep communicating.

I have seen people, guys especially, start taking their partner for granted after a few months or years of relationship because they start believing that now she has started loving me, she won’t go anywhere. Nah! Not right bro. She can absolutely leave you at anytime without any prior notice if she ever feels being taken for granted or getting no love after a while. So never do it. And it’s not just for the guys. It’s for all those girls too who start taking their partner for granted. Kindly don’t.

“You are not wrong for wanting to spend ‘Quality time’ with your partner. You are not asking too much and it doesn’t make you a needy person. It simply means you understand the power of quality time. You understand that it may only have taken time to create the bond, but it’s going to take quality time to solidify it and help it to grow.”

If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to your partner, that is not true love.

Most people don’t want to hear this but real relationships that last involves a lot of forgiveness. You have to accept the fact that your partner isn’t perfect and will hurt you, disappoint you and upset you. You have to figure out if you are willing to go through those ups and downs with them.

People say, “Long distance relationship never works! ” I would say, Even short distance relationship won’t work if you are with a wrong person and even a long distance relationship would work if a person is pure at heart.

Well, how to keep a relationship ?

Communicate: Talk about things. The good and the bad. Build trust. Be honest. Be faithful. Be there for one another. Make time for one another. Leave the past to the past.

Know that having arguments is normal. A relationship is finished the moment when one decides to make the other realise. Know that you won’t always be happy.

Don’t expect change. Appreciate the flaws. Appreciate each other. Become best friends. Lastly, love each other unconditionally.




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